As parents, it’s almost second nature to compare our children to others. We see babies who are already walking, toddlers speaking in full sentences, or kids stacking blocks higher than we thought possible. It’s easy to start questioning: Am I doing enough? Is my baby falling behind?

But here’s a perspective shift: instead of comparing your baby to someone else’s child, ask yourself this—when did I first learn about early education?

Before You Started Teaching

Think back to the time before you began exploring early learning. What did your child’s day look like then? Maybe there was lots of play, cuddles, and exploration (all wonderful things!). But were you actively teaching them concepts like reading, math, or language?

Most of us weren’t. And that’s okay! Every parent starts somewhere, often at different points in their child’s life. The important thing is that you did start.

After You Began Teaching

Now, look at your child today. How have they grown since you started introducing early education activities?

• Are they more curious about books, sounds, or numbers?

• Do they show excitement when they recognize something new?

• Have you noticed small milestones—like pointing to pictures, saying new words, or copying movements?

That’s progress. Real, tangible progress. And it’s entirely unique to your child.

The Real Comparison

Instead of measuring your baby against others, measure their growth against their own past. What can they do today that they couldn’t do a month ago, or even last week? Celebrate those small, wonderful wins.

For example:

• Did they finally clap along to a song you’ve been singing for weeks?

• Are they showing interest in shapes or colors you’ve been gently introducing?

• Have they developed new sounds, words, or even facial expressions?

These moments may not always look like traditional milestones, but they’re evidence of learning and connection.

Every Parent’s Journey is Different

It’s also important to remember that every parent discovers early education at different points. Some might start teaching their babies as early as birth. Others (like me) might stumble across a book or method when their child is 5 months old—or even older.

The age when you start will naturally shape your child’s progress. That’s not something to feel guilty about—it’s just part of your journey.

Progress, Not Perfection

Early education isn’t about competing or checking off milestones faster than the next family. It’s about creating a loving, stimulating environment where your child can grow at their own pace.

By focusing on your child’s unique journey, you can let go of the unnecessary pressure to keep up with others. Instead, you can enjoy the everyday moments that truly matter.

Trust Your Process

The most important thing you can do for your baby is to trust your process. Every activity, every game, every cuddle—it’s all helping them grow in their own special way. Your dedication to early learning is already making a huge difference.

So next time you feel the comparison bug creeping in, pause and ask yourself:

• How has my baby grown since I started teaching them?

• What have we achieved together as a family?

You’re doing amazing, and your baby is lucky to have you.

Sincerely, Dasha ♥️